Children have tender minds, and even small strictness can leave a lasting impact. In today’s fast-paced, competitive world, parenting styles need to be more careful and compassionate. Unlike earlier times, where scolding or even beating was common, modern parenting emphasizes love, understanding, and patience. Stress on children has increased, making gentle guidance more important than ever.
Here are three specific times when scolding children can have especially negative effects — and should be avoided at all costs:
After Waking Up in the Morning
Mornings set the tone for the entire day. Just like adults, children may not feel energetic or communicative immediately after waking. Rushing them or scolding them during this delicate time can start their day with stress. Instead, greet them gently and allow a calm, loving morning routine.
Right After Returning from School
Children come home tired and mentally drained from a full day of learning. Immediately bombarding them with questions or criticism can make them reluctant to share and increase their stress. Give them some time to rest, offer healthy food and water, and let them freshen up before discussing their day.
During Bedtime or While Sleeping
Sleep is essential for a child’s physical and mental growth. Scolding or stressing a child at bedtime can cause anxiety and disrupt their sleep cycle, impacting overall development. Always ensure that bedtime is peaceful and loving to help children relax and get restful sleep.
Why Avoid Scolding at These Times?
Stress in children not only slows their physical growth but also affects their thinking and emotional well-being. It can make them irritable, withdrawn, and anxious, creating a barrier to open communication with parents.
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