I dated Charlotte Church when her career was at its peak - now I work in a pub

Few players have transcended the game of rugby quite like Gavin Henson, with the former Wales international earning comparisons to David Beckham for the talent he showed on the pitch and the life he lived off of it.

The flamboyant back was one of the most naturally talented players of his generation and few could take their eyes off him as he shone on the international stage and for his many clubs, single-handedly turning games on their head on more than one occasion.

In addition to winning 33 caps for Wales and touring with the British & Irish Lions in 2005, Henson represented three out of the four Welsh regions - the Ospreys, Dragons and Cardiff - while he also played in England with Saracens, Bath, Bristol and London Welsh, as well as in France with Toulon.

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He tasted glory with Wales, being part of two Grand Slam campaigns in 2005 and 2008, while he also won two domestic titles and the Anglo-Welsh Cup with the Ospreys. But for all the headlines he made for his success on the pitch, he would make just as many off it, sometimes for the wrong reasons.

Most notably, Henson's relationship with singer Charlotte Church - who is one of 19 famous faces taking part in the BBC's new series of Celebrity Traitors- was splashed across newspaper pages for much of the 2000s, as they became one of the most high profile couples in British sport.

He would later have stints on reality TV shows including Strictly Come Dancing but things now look very different for the former rugby star, who is now 43-year-old. From his romance with Church to running his own pub, here's what you need to know about Henson's life away from the pitch.

Relationship with Charlotte Church

Henson and Church - who rose to fame as a classical singer before pursuing a pop career - sparked a media frenzy when they were first seen in public together in April 2005, shortly after she split up with her previous boyfriend Kyle Johnson.

On her BBC podcast, Kicking Back With the Cardiffians, Church said she went looking for the rugby star after watching him play on TV, explaining: “I remember watching on this television, Wales vs England, when Gavin kicked the kick over.

"Then that night - I didn't know Gav before that - I was like, I'm going to go out and find him in town. He is nice. Actually I was going round asking everybody, ‘Do you know Gavin Henson? Where will he go out drinking afterwards?’ Nobody knew – but I did find him.”

The Welsh power couple moved in together the following year, while in March 2007, Church revealed that she was pregnant with the couple's first child. They welcomed a daughter, Ruby, later that year, with their second child, a son, Dexter, born in January 2009.

They looked to be going from strength to strength, with Henson proposing to Church on her 24th birthday in February 2010, the same month she landed a big TV gig on BBC singing show Over The Rainbow. However, it all fell apart just six weeks later, as the couple confirmed they were splitting up after five years together.

It was later confirmed that the decision was a joint one, with Church explaining: "When he proposed, I was overjoyed. It was amazing. I really was going to marry Gav and spend the rest of my life with him. But then he came back from Norway, and he'd changed, and I'd had time to think. We had both had a change of heart – so we were both of the same mind."

Church later hit out at the "insane" media intrusion she had to deal with before and during her relationship with Henson, having also claimed that her phone was hacked by the News of The World, for which she later received an apology and substantial damages.

"The press intrusion was insane, there was all sorts of dark stuff going on," she said. "There were stories in the papers all the time and lots of things were blown up, misconstrued and made seedy - when they really weren't.

"There was a lot of shame being thrown at me, with the press desperately trying to make me a figure of sin and push this 'fallen angel' narrative. If I had let that shame in, or internalised it, my life could have gone in a very different way."

Today, Henson and Church maintain a good relationship and co-parent Dexter and they have both found love again. While the former rugby star married long-term partner Katie Wilson Mould in 2019, Church tied the knot with musician Jonathan Powell in 2017, having asked Henson for his blessing before they started dating.

Past controversies

Aside from his relationship with Church, Henson found himself making headlines for all the wrong reasons on more than one occasion, sometimes landing himself in trouble with the law and his clubs.

In 2007, he and three other men were charged with disorderly conduct for drunken behaviour on a train between London and Cardiff, only for the case to be dropped due to insufficient evidence. In 2009, he was also given a police caution over his behaviour on a night out in Cardiff following Wales' Six Nations win over England.

Henson also landed himself in hot water after some drinking sessions went too far, as he was sacked by Cardiff after playing just eight games for them following his "inexcusable" and "inappropriate" drunken behaviour on a flight back from Glasgow in March 2012.

A year later, a drunken comment he made to new Bath teammate Carl Fearns led to the two-time Grand Slam winner being knocked out by the flanker during a team bonding night, with the incident caught on CCTV.

However, Henson has since opened up on his past behaviour and revealed he has been able to understand himself better after discovering the 'chimp' that had been running his mind, leading him to put boozing behind him.

Having "battled for a long time" with his own mind, Henson was captivated by Professor Steve Peters' mind-management book The Chimp Paradox, which outlined how to control the 'chimp', or "the voice which tells you to do things you maybe shouldn't."

"I didn’t understand the thoughts I was having after games where I wanted to go out and drink," he explained in an interview with MailOnline. "They were a million miles away from my core values and goals in rugby.

"Now, having read the book, I understand that for most of my rugby career, the chimp was controlling me and running my life more than I was. If I’d found the book while I was still playing rugby, I’d 100 per cent have been a better player and maybe I wouldn’t have made the mistakes I did."

"In social interactions, I probably need a drink because I'm an introvert," he continued. "If I have a drink, I become more of an extrovert and the chimp has more confidence! I can be good fun on a night out! But now I choose not to go into those environments. I'm not tee-total. In the last year, I’ve probably had one good drink. There’s a place in rugby for sharing a drink with your team-mates".

New life as pub landlord

While Henson has cut down on his drinking habits, these days he can be found pulling pints, having become the landlord of The Fox & Hounds pub in St Brides Major, Vale of Glamorgan in 2019.

After carrying out an extensive refurbishment and restaurant upgrade, the former Wales international shortened the name of the pub to The Fox and manages the venue with his wife Katie.

Speaking to The Times about the venture, Henson said: "I was coming to the end of my career, and it [the pub] had been sat here for 18 months, two years. It was not nice for the village, and I needed something to do after rugby and to be busy, not to mourn rugby and get depressed, as they say everyone does.

"But be careful what you wish for because this is so full-on. We want to feel like we've achieved something with the pub. We're perfectionists. We're all about the detail."

Henson - who is believed to have a net worth of around £800,000 after once earning roughly £120,000 a year at the height of his career - has also recently pulled his rugby boots back on again.

In September last year, he returned to the field with his boyhood club Pencoed and he is now into his second season in League 2 West Central, in the fourth tier of Welsh rugby.

Speaking to BBC Scrum V, Henson admitted he is "loving" being back in rugby, explaining: "I’m 43 now, so a bit old, as my wife tells me. But I’ve missed it, I’ve missed the physicality of it, and being in a team environment again and trying to win.

“I’m very competitive, I like trying to win, that’s the main thing. We have a good group of boys. We’re aiming for promotion, so hopefully it will be a good season and great for the club.

"I’m playing 10, I would like to play 12 but I am just not quite big enough yet. So I’ll still try to aim to get there but 10 at the moment."