Parenting: Teenager child does not talk straight? Just follow these things told by parenting coach..

Teenage age is considered to be very delicate because during this period children are growing rapidly not only physically but also mentally and emotionally. In such a situation, they want to make their decisions according to their wishes. They want their personal space. Overall, they want to live their life according to their wishes at this time. At the same time, parents get upset seeing the changed behavior of the child. Also, they stop them, because parents feel that their child should not get trapped in any wrong company or habit.

Due to this, usually at this age, many times there is a conflict or argument between parents and children. In some cases, children at this age stop talking to their parents or start giving the opposite or irritable answer to everything.

If your teenage child is also doing the same, then do not worry, rather listen to these things of famous parenting coach Parikshit Jobanputra carefully and follow it and then see that your child himself will come to you to talk, let's know about this in detail.

Attention is not needed at this age.

Parenting coach Parikshit Jobanputra says in a video shared on Instagram that, teenage is such an age in which the more attention you give to the child, the more he will go away. If you give him any advice without thinking about it and say, son, for your good, he will say - I do not want my good.

Love is not needed at this age.

Parikshit further says that in teenagers, the child does not need your attention anymore. The interesting thing is that if the mother tries to kiss him on his face, then he will say stay away from me because something else is going on in his mind. Therefore, the more attention you try to give him at this time, the more he will go away.

Go on a long drive with your son.

He says, 'I want to say that go on a date with your child. If it is a son, then it is the father's responsibility to take out time once or twice a month and go with him to a movie, drive, or for a meal, and at that time ask him that son, this is how it is at this age, so if there is a girl, can you tell me.'

Mother should create the environment.

The parenting coach further says that similarly, if it is a daughter, then it is the mother's responsibility to create such an environment for her daughter, if the father or brother is not there at that time, then talk to her. You will see that gradually the daughter will become comfortable and she will start sharing her things. The parenting coach says that instead of a spy, we have to focus on the spy.

Start surprising the child.

He finally says that in the teenage, children want to rise above all in the eyes of their parents. Therefore, I want to tell parents that if their child does something at this age, parents should start feeling happy with it, children will get excited and start surprising them.

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